I Like Chocolate With Peanut Butter Frosting

Friends who run marathons are celebrated with trophies and medals.

Friends who perform in theater troupes get flowers.

Friends who get books published are given lots of accolades.

 

Well, girlfriend, I saw you clean that J-tube like it was nothing,...you who were so afraid of blood! I've seen you navigate a two hour tantrum without losing your cool. I've noted your grace when people act like your child doesn't exist because they don't know what to say. I've seen you run ragged chasing your child who moves like a tornado. I've witnessed you truly see my child, even when your own child(ren)have so many needs.  

 

The feats special needs parents perform require more endurance than a marathon. More spontaneity than the best actor, more discipline than the most dedicated writer.

 

If you can swing it, bake (or pick up) a cake for your favorite special needs parent today. Of course find out about any possible food restrictions in the family first.

 

It won't take away all their troubles, but it will make their day. 

 

It would say, I see you. I acknowledge the amazing dedication, resilience, and courage you bring to the game every day.  

 

If I could, I'd bake all of you a cake.

What's your favorite flavor?

 

 

Michelle O’Neil has contributed to A Cup of Comfort for Parents of Children with Autism, and Special Gifts: Women Writers on the Heartache, the Happiness and the Hope of Raising a Special Needs Child. She has written for Literary Mama, The Imperfect Parent, Age of Autism, Cool Cleveland and Sensory Integration Special Interest Section (SISIS) Quarterly Newsletter, a professional publication for occupational therapists. She blogged for years at Fullsoulahead.com.