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Tuesday
Jan192010

What We Know

 

Love, the simplicity of it

At first, that is all we know

When our children enter our lives

Some of us learn early on

That things will be different

That our lives will take an unexpected turn

Some will find out later

That we must accept a new persona

And ask questions without answers, such as

Why

But some of our questions will be answered

In time

We will come to know

More about ourselves

Than we ever expected to

We know that we are vulnerable

No matter how many well-wishers

Revere our strength

We know how hard it really is

Love, the complexity of it

We know

That there aren’t any instruction books

Yet we keep reading them

We acclimate to our reality the best we can

And when we think of our children’s futures

Ultimately we will come to realize that

So much of what we know

Is what we don’t know

And we learn to live with that

Through it all, we come back to the one constant

That keeps us moving forward

When everything else is stripped away

The reason why we have been here all along

Why we do what we do

How we know

What we know

Love, the simplicity of it

 

                                     Tanya writes TeenAutism

Reader Comments (9)

I love Tanya! :)

January 20, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMichelle

Great poem Tanya! and so true.

January 20, 2010 | Unregistered Commenterfighting for my children

I hear you.

January 20, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterCarrie N

Oh, you're so right, so simple and so complex!

Love.

January 20, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterCarrie

Yes, love.

January 21, 2010 | Unregistered Commenterpixiemama

Beautiful Tanya.

True and beautifully put.

January 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMichelle O'Neil

I love to contemplate simplicity, and your beautiful poem has let me do that. Thank you.

January 21, 2010 | Unregistered Commenterelizabeth

True.

January 25, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterInsideout510

Beautiful! I dedicate my recent blog to you and yours! Thank you. I will share this with my grad students (special ed, psych and counseling). It will make a difference!

January 25, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterCinda

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